Stomas change in size and shape during the first few months. The initial stoma swelling will lessen and the diameter will decrease. It is prudent to check the size of the stoma each pouch change until the size stabilizes.
Each person has a different ostomy just as our fingerprints are different. We have more similarities than differences. Attending UOA meetings gives us the opportunity to explore with others, seek support and information from someone with an ostomy to ease the transition time. UOA has experienced visitors who are generous in helping people who had or about to have surgery. They will assist with concerns about this new phase of life. It is your ostomy.
Learn to manage it and do not let it manage you. It is normal for your new ostomy to be the centre of your existence; however, with time and practice, your ostomy and its daily care will become just a normal part of your daily life. You are not alone. About 500 ostomies are performed daily in the U.S. Some are permanent and some are temporary. Help others along the way. Be happy you have been given a second chance.
See you at the next meeting!
Lorrie
